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Hey, Pamela, we are both 'Sonnets'!! I thought that it was funny that out of 32 results and after answering *8* pages of questions we turned out to be the exact same thign. Weird.

I am, however, not a 1. ;) I'm usually a 6, but today was a 4. . .?!




the Romantic
Test finished!
you chose BY - your Enneagram type is FOUR.

"I am unique"


Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.



How to Get Along with Me


  • Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.

  • Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value
    myself.

  • Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.

  • Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy,
    I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.

  • Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!


What I Like About Being a Four

  • my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep
    level

  • my ability to establish warm connections with people

  • admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life

  • my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor

  • being unique and being seen as unique by others

  • having aesthetic sensibilities

  • being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me




What's Hard About Being a Four

  • experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair

  • feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved

  • feeling guilty when I disappoint people

  • feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me

  • expecting too much from myself and life

  • fearing being abandoned


  • obsessing over resentments

  • longing for what I don't have



Fours as Children Often

  • have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in
    original game
    s

  • are very sensitive

  • feel that they don't fit in

  • believe they are missing something that other people have


  • attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.

  • become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood

  • feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents'
    divorce)



Fours as Parents

  • help their children become who they really are

  • support their children's creativity and originality

  • are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings


  • are sometimes overly critical or overly protective

  • are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed


Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

The Enneagram Made Easy

Discover the 9 Types of People

HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages




You are not completely happy with the result?!

You chose BY


Would you rather have chosen:

  • AY (EIGHT)
  • CY (SIX)
  • BX (NINE)
  • BZ (FIVE)



  • My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:
    free online datingfree online dating
    You scored higher than 25% on ABC
    free online datingfree online dating
    You scored higher than 57% on XYZ
    Link: The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test



     
    The Sonnet
    Deliberate Gentle Love Dreamer (DGLDf)

        Romantic, hopeful, and composed. You are the Sonnet. Get it? Composed?

        Sonnets want Love and have high ideals about it. They're conscientious people, caring & careful. You yourself have deep convictions, and you devote a lot of thought to romance and what it should be. This will frighten away most potential mates, but that's okay, because you're very choosy with your affections anyway. You'd absolutely refuse to date someone dumber than you, for instance.

    Your exact opposite:
    Genghis Khunt

    Random Brutal Sex Master
        Lovers who share your idealized perspective, or who are at least willing to totally throw themselves into a relationship, will be very, very happy with you. And you with them. You're already selfless and compassionate, and with the right partner, there's no doubt you can be sensual, even adventurously so.

        You probably have lots of female friends, and they have a special soft spot for you. Babies do, too, at the tippy-top of their baby skulls.


    ALWAYS AVOID: The 5-Night Stand, The False Messiah, The Hornivore, The Last Man on Earth

    CONSIDER: The Loverboy


    Link: The 32-Type Dating Test by OkCupid - Free Online Dating.
    My profile name: mandajanie

    Re: Interesting stuff...

    Date: 2006-02-21 12:15 am (UTC)
    From: [identity profile] mandajanie.livejournal.com
    I'll probably be so eager to NOT be like my mom that I'll be a total Wuss Parent. ;)

    Of course I assume we'll be in touch WHEN you have kids.;-) I don't know if it will really happen, but it would be rather odd to assume otherwise.

    can't my husband have the kids instead?! LOL Bearing children and going through labor are not quite my idea of fun. Not that I have to worry about that any time soon, but yeah. hopefully hubby will be content to start off with orange cats and a golden retriever as 'the kids' for a year or two or three at first.

    Yeah, I have definite thoughts on romance. ;) But now with so many guys interested in me, it's on my mind more, something I've been seriously thinking about more, etc. And that's why it ends up in my LJ!

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